Monday, 23 June, 2003

The girls have started their summer library program. Amy always sits front and center, unfortunately for other kids there, she doesn’t have any problem squeezing around them or between them to get the spot she wants. We had started the program with Misha enrolled in the Monday class for 2 to 3 year olds and Amy in the Tuesday class for 4 to 6 year olds. Misha’s attention span lasts for no more than seven minutes, so she is up and down wandering for most of the time. I try to get her to sit just a little bit longer every time. When it was Misha’s class, Amy would still be front and center and participate. So, I decided to minimize our library time and only go for the 2 to 3 year old class on Monday morning.


The other exciting thing for both of them is swimming lessons. We signed them up for lessons at the Rec Center in Frederick for an eight-week course that meets once a week. Their teacher is Heidi. Amy is doing really well and Misha so-so. There are six students in their class and they learn skills one at a time and Misha’s attention lasts only so long. Heidi works with Misha at her skill level which is helpful. Amy is so excited and proud of herself.

About one month ago, we went for a bike ride in the evening. The girls ride in the stroller behind Christopher’s bike and usually have a good time with no complaining. Sometimes they begin to get on each others' nerves in the cramped space they are in. One night we were nearing the end of our ride when Chris started riding fast and kind of crazy. He turned a corner and spun out, and I followed only to watch in horror as he flew off his seat and rolled a couple times and then the girls in the stroller rolled. It was kind of like watching slow motion video. I raced to where they were and helped Chris as he pulled the girls out of the stroller. Luckily they were well buckled, but were still screaming and crying. I think Misha mostly was scared to pieces; she only had a small bruise on her shoulder. Because she is so much shorted than Amy, the seatbelts kept her from any serious injury. Amy on the other hand had a goose egg on her forehead the size of a chicken’s egg! She had scraped the skin off her forehead in the pattern of the fabric on the stroller. Chris was a bit scraped, very bruised and sore. His left shoulder took the brunt of the impact with the road. We were just so grateful that nobody was hurt any worse. Now Chris, Amy, and I wear bike helmets when we ride. We bought one for Misha, but the smallest we could find was still too big for her little head.


As a joke, when I would change the girls or get them out of the shower, I would say, “Oooh baby” and pinch their bottoms. Amy picked up on it and started saying it to me when I would get in the shower or once when we didn’t change the channel quite quickly enough on tv and a lady’s heiney was shown. She said, “That was oooh baby.” Somehow it has morphed into “boo baby” with other variations being “boo babylicious”.

Our new house is progressing. A week and a half ago, they started with the main floor and by last Saturday they had finished framing and putting the roof on. I went by today but I couldn’t really tell that much was being done. The stairs to the basement and to the second floor are not in yet, so we don’t go as often so as to keep the girls from injuring themselves.

We aren’t having much luck selling or even having people come look at our house. It is rather discouraging. We had an open house on the 14th of June and only one couple came during the three-hour time. We are praying and have fasted and have family members doing the same. We try to have faith that everything will work out all right.

Thursday, 5 June, 2003

Donna had her baby on Tuesday the 3rd.  Isaac Wolfe Rice.  He weighed 8 lbs 10 oz and arrived in quite a timely manner.

It took a few weeks to get the girls back onto our time schedule and to get Misha back to where she was going to sleep without any problems.  Now when I take her up to bed, she lays down, and I cover her up, and she goes to sleep.  She has been waking up early though, often before six.  We put her in bed with us, but that didn’t always help.  We had to just let her cry it out.  The first morning she cried at her door for an hour, the next morning a half hour, the next morning five minutes, and the next morning she slept right through.



Sunday, 25 May, 2003

I am going to recap our vacation and try to get all of the dates and events in the right place.  We left for Utah on Saturday, May 3.  The weather was perfect for a nice driving day–about 70 degrees.  We stopped in a small town called Idaho Springs to visit a cemetery.  Kevin has been doing a lot of genealogy lately and tracked the information for Max Kline–Grandpa Kline’s Grandpa-to Colorado.  His grave site was at a small cemetery in Idaho Springs.  Kevin really, really, really wanted us to stop and get the picture for him.  We asked directions to the cemetery (never would have found it on our own) and found it “over the river and through the woods” with a tiny rutted road circling it.  Chris attempted to follow the road–not a good idea-and ending up scratching the van.  He wasn’t too happy about that.  Since there were no marking at the cemetery to indicate where a grave might be, we decided to just get out and look.  The only information that Kevin gave that was really helpful was that Max was buried in the newer section of the cemetery.  Right!



I started looking as Chris parked the car and thought this could take all day.  All of a sudden after looking for maybe five minutes, I looked down and saw a familiar name, or so I thought.  I shouted to Chris “I found it!  Nope, I guess not.  Yes, it is.”  Needed a double take to really sink in that it was actually the site we were looking for.  It was simply a metal name plate set atop the site that was sinking in a bit.  We were excited to find it, and Chris took some pictures.  We were on our way again.

We stopped a few times throughout the day for potty stops.  Amy did pretty well about not having any accidents.  We were happy because it was her first long trip after being potty trained.  We also stopped for lunch and at a park later in the day so the girls could get out and play.  We had picnic lunch at a rest area next to a river.  The girls didn’t eat much but preferred to be climbing around or throwing things in to the river.

We continued on with an eight hour trip turning into almost twelve hours after stopping for breaks, lunch, dinner, and play time.  We finally arrived in Provo around 9 pm and drove directly to Kevin’s apartment where we would stay.  He was in Vancouver visiting family so we had free reign of their apartment.  The girls took some time to wind down; Amy was pretty good about going to bed in a strange place but Misha was having nothing to do with going to sleep on her own.  And so began the saga of sleeping next to her or with her to get her to sleep each night, well that and driving her around until she fell asleep.  We tried her in Jonathan’s bed and she climbed right out.  We tried his play pen and she was out in a flash.  We tried putting her in Kevin and Candace’s bed and she wouldn’t stay put.  Then she would wake up in the middle of the night crying because she was somewhere new and would have to spend the rest of the night in bed with us.  Chris usually moved somewhere else to sleep and that is how most of our nights went.

On Sunday morning (May 4), we decided to drive around and see if Misha would fall asleep for her nap.  Didn’t happen.  But we did stop at King’s house to visit a bit before church.  The kids took a few minutes to warm up and then had fun playing in the park.  Since it had been raining, “the park” in the backyard was wet and Amy had to stay in the house which was disappointing for her.  We left around noon to go back to Kevin’s to get ready and church began at 1 pm.  Amy sat with Grandma Rice and was as quiet as could be the entire time.  Misha, on the other hand, was pretty noisy.  Chris tried taking her out and rocking her to sleep, but no luck.  He finally drove around with her during Sunday School, and she finally slept then.

Carson blessed Melissa Brooklyn in Sacrament Meeting and it was nice to see so much of his and our family in attendance.  We had a dinner after the meetings and then went back to Susan’s for awhile to visit more with family.

Chris worked most of Monday (May 5).  He had a telephone meeting with a patent lawyer concerning a product that he has developed for IBM called MQTools.  It is possible that they will apply for up to seven patents for this product.  He was thrilled, but also kept busy for most of the day.  He had originally planned only to work a half day on Monday and Tuesday.  He ended up working full days for both days and part of Wednesday and could have still worked more.  As it was, he worked at King’s house for part of the day so the girls were able to play and enjoy themselves.  Donna brought Angie and Wade over as well, and Mom and Dad even came later in the afternoon.

We had to pull the girls away from “the park” to go to dinner in Eagle Valley at the home of some of Chris’ Novell friends.  Eagle Valley is on the other side of Utah Lake and is growing tremendously.  Home prices are pretty good, but you have to balance that with the long commute anywhere you go.

Tuesday was another play day at Kings while Chris worked. The girls were having a great time.  Susan brought out popsicles so all of Amy’s memories of last summer were complete.  Donna met Susan and I at the mall with all of our kids and mostly we let the kids play and then had lunch in the food court.  After Chris finished working, we left the girls at Kings with Jenna in charge and Chris and I got away for a little while.  Driving in Provo is so scary.  I passed three accidents on State Street one afternoon and the next day narrowly missed being in one. 

We went back to Kings and then out to dinner with them at Brick Oven-one of my favorite restaurants.  Kings had never taken their kids there, so it was a special treat for them.

Chris had an eye exam at the Practice on Wednesday midmorning.  Susan decided to come up to Draper with us though we did leave Amy and Nathan at Donna’s to play with her kids.  We took Misha and Melissa with us because I didn’t want Donna to have to deal with Misha’s crankiness.  (Donna was eight months pregnant!)  We dropped Chris off and Susan and I went down to the factory stores.  We were both disappointed to discover that the Carter’s outlet store had closed.  They have clothes for kids.  At least there is still one in Loveland close to me.  It rained most of the morning so we were poured on when leaving the mall to go back and get Chris.

We had planned to go to a Mexican restaurant for lunch, but it was packed so we went over to Carl’s Jr. instead.  That was my first time eating there.  Misha loved it because they had a great play land and barely ate anything.  We usually only get a few french fries and maybe a chicken nugget into her though.  After that we walked over to Cold Stone Ice Creamery for dessert.

Chris and I wanted to look at some luggage at the factory stores, so we went back.  By this point, Misha was way past her nap time and very crabby.  After a half hour of fighting with her, she finally fell asleep in the stroller.  Hallelujah!  After purchasing some new luggage, we dropped Chris back at the practice so he could work on their computers a bit and Susan and I drove back to Donna’s in a downpour.  It was pretty bad, but we finally made it.  Mom and Dad and Brad were there as well when we arrived and Donna had to go to a dance recital practice for the evening.  We stayed there with Wade and Donna took Angie.  Chris and Dallin got there after we had finished eating and were cleaning up.  Luckily, the girls fell asleep on the way home and we didn’t have to struggle with Misha to get her to sleep. 

Both girls slept late the next morning (Thursday May 8) and we had to rush to pack up and get to the airport before 9 am.  We parked at the Thrifty Park and Ride in SLC and made it to the airport with a little time to spare.  Because we have kids, we got to pre-board and Chris picked a spot of front with a little more room for Misha and Amy to move around in.  Washington is one hour behind and we arrived there at 11:15 their time.




Grandpa Ball was in the vicinity of the airport to pick us up and we loaded up and were off.  The landscape was so beautiful with the abundance of green trees, flowering trees of fuchsia, orange, pink and white.  After dropping us off, Chris immediately headed back to the airport to pick up Grandma Andrews.  The girls took some time getting acquainted with the house, the backyard, the trampoline and cousins.  Didn’t take them long.  Chris and I took Misha for a drive with Grandma Andrews to try and get Misha to sleep that afternoon.  We were finally successful so both Chris and Grandma went to visit Grandma Ball at work while I stayed in the car and rested.

Grandma Ball didn’t get home from work until about 6:30 their time.  We had to feed the kids early since all the cousins were used to eating on an earlier schedule.  Everyone was home for this big weekend.  And since it was Mother’s Day, Grandma Ball had requested (strongly) that all of her kids be around for church on Sunday.  Kevin and Candace and Jonathan were staying at Candace’s parent’s home but spent most all of every day at the Ball’s home.  Becky and Kyle and Drew and Katie had moved from Utah and were now living in the basement.  Lori was home for the summer, fall and maybe winter trying to decide what to do with her life.  She had originally planned to go to China to teach English in the fall, but because of the SARS epidemic, the program had been cancelled.  I think she was thinking of a mission at some point.  Jenni flew home for the weekend from BYU.  So the house was full, and we all shared one bathroom in the basement. 

It wasn’t quite so bad as it might have been since Lori and Jenni and often Kyle and Becky slept quite late.  Grandma Andrews stayed next door at the Reynold’s house and enjoyed a private room and bath.

We had dinner quite late but it was quite tasty.  The kids had a little tiny table to sit at and fought over who was stealing whose plate, fork, food, etc.  The dad’s got to referee that night.  After dinner the kids got to swim in the hot tub.  It wasn’t quite as hot as usual and they had a ball.  Misha had on her new swimming suit with floaties built in and Amy wore some of Grandma’s floaties on her arms.



 The sad part was when we took them out to put them to bed.  No one was happy about that.  I was hoping that all of the excitement of the day would wipe Misha out and she would fall asleep quickly, but not so.  I think I fell asleep beside her.  Sadly she woke up in the middle of the night.  Lori and Jenni were still awake and they found Misha trying to open their door about 2 am.  They weren’t quite sure what to do about her but finally something woke me up so I went out to get Misha.  Chris and I got to sleep in the lovely trundle beds–basically two twin beds on different levels.  I put Misha in bed with Chris while I went to the bathroom.  He didn’t sleep all that well from that point on.

Friday was a day for much of nothing.  The girls played on the trampoline, in the fort and watched movies.  I finally got Misha to sleep for a nap which she truly needed.  After the nap, we took the kids to the playground for a change of pace.  Grandma Andrews came with us and enjoyed being able to spend time with her Great Grandkids.




We had kind of a late dinner again followed by another trip to the hot tub for the girls.  After finally getting them to bed, Chris and I enjoyed a little time to ourselves in the hot tub.  Because they had turned the heat down for the kids, it wasn’t quite as hot as I would have liked, but enjoyable still.  In a house full of so many people, finding a few moments of quiet was a challenge.

Saturday, May 10, was a big day.  We had a family photo scheduled for 11:30.  Right at nap time!  I don’t think the girls, especially Misha, smiled in a single picture.  The family picture was kind of a hodge podge of people with Grandma Andrews (an ex-mother-in-law for Linda), Larry and Linda, Aunt Lori (Linda’s sister) and her new husband, Keith, Uncle Roger (Larry’s brother), Kevin, Candace and Jonathan, Becky, Kyle, Drew and Katie, Chris and I, Amy and Misha, Lori, Jenni, and Grandma Greve (Linda’s mom).




Pictures were completed with only a few mishaps and we were on our way.  We stopped to pick up stuff at Burger King and headed back to the house to get ready to go to Saturday market in downtown Portland.  That was one thing that I wanted to do so we went with our family, Kevin’s family, Linda and Gr. Andrews.  It was fun though I didn’t find anything this year.

We got back to the house around 4:30 or so and Grandpa Kline arrived shortly after.  Dinner was another big affair and if you thought about letting others go first, you missed out.  I was helping get the girls fed, and by the time I was ready to eat, most of the food was devoured.

The kids headed for the hot tub again.  It was hotter than before so they were coming out nearly cooked with rosy cheeks.  Keith and Lori were staying at a hotel and had booked a room for Zoe (Lori’s daughter) who didn’t arrive until the next day.  Since it had already been paid for, they offered it to us for the night.  We worried about leaving the girls since Misha was up in the middle of the night every night.  We hadn’t ever both left them.  You’d think we would jump at the chance to get away by ourselves since it has been well over three years since it has happened, but after Jenni said she would listen for Misha in the middle of the night, we convinced ourselves to go.

We had a wonderful night together and returned the next morning to a flurry of activity.  Church was at 9 and Grandpa Kline had taken over breakfast in his usual style and was making french toast, hash browns and bacon.  I fed the girls and myself Cheerios and tried to get us all out the door for church.  I think he felt a little slighted that we didn’t eat his breakfas,t but it was crazy to even think people were going to sit down and enjoy it.  I think they inhaled it more than anything and then rushed out the door.  (Sadly, all the dishes were still there when we got home from church, and Candace and I cleaned up the kitchen).

Since it was Mother’s Day, Linda proudly sat with ALL of her kids and their families on the front row.  Amy was pretty quiet and Misha, miracle of all miracles, fell asleep on my shoulder!  We had given her motrin before church because she was so crabby and seemed to be teething and it pretty much knocked her out.  She slept for a couple hours even through the car ride home.  Grandma Andrews and Grandpa Kline left around noon for home so we only stayed for Sacrament Meeting so we could go say goodbye.

Chris, Kevin, Lori, and Jenni made dinner so that mothers could have a break– especially since these mothers had been doing most of the cooking.  Amazing how some of the men and daughters in this family are so lazy.  I won’t name names.  Zoe arrived in time for dinner–and left for home later that night.  Short trip but fun.

 As we were sitting around talking later that afternoon around 5 pm, Amy came and sat on my lap.  Less than a minute later she was breathing deeply and was fast asleep.  I held her for awhile and then laid her down on the couch as everyone was going their separate ways.  I tried to wake her up an hour later and she wouldn’t budge.  Her eyes opened for a minute or two and then she was out again.  Finally, Chris and I carried her downstairs, put jammies and a pull-up on and covered her for the night.  She slept until about 8 the next morning.  She was pooped to say the least.

We took Misha to visit Renee and Allen Rhyasen.  Renee is Dad’s cousin and amazingly enough their family and Chris’ family have been good friends over the years.  The men at their house were making dinner so we sat and talked with Renee for an hour.  We figured we could get Misha to bed better if we drove around after leaving.  Took about a half an hour, but finally she drifted off to sleep while leaning against my shoulder.

We left for the beach on Monday morning (May 12).  It felt wonderful to be just the four of us again.  We had all been enjoying our time with family, but I think we had finally reached our limit.  We took Grandpa Ball’s Taurus wagon (Yahoooo) and stopped first at Seaside in Oregon.  Amy was absolutely amazed to see the ocean.  We had been talking about all these wonderful things and finally she was fulfilling her dreams.  We ate fish n’ chips at a little cafĂ©, bought salt water taffy at a candy shop and then walked down to the beach.  Amy was excited to put her feet in the water but as soon as Misha stepped off the sidewalk onto the sand, she was captivated.  She didn’t care that the beach and sand went on for miles, she was so focused on enjoying that sand right there.  She literally reminded me of a pig in mud.  She rolled in the sand, ate the sand, let it run through her fingers, shoved her feet in deep...she loved it.  We played on the swings for a little bit, but even those couldn’t keep her away from the sand for long.




Since we still had a couple of hours to go before reaching our hotel for the night, we decided to keep driving.  Fortunately we stopped at the Tillamook cheese factory and got to watch them cut and package cheese AND have ice cream.  The girls were excited to be anywhere we stopped.  But it was getting late, so we kept going.  We finally arrived at Gleneden about 6ish (7 our time) and the girls were starving.  We didn’t know where many things were so we stopped at the first pizza place and picked up a pizza that we had to cook at the hotel.  No problem, it was a resort that Chris’ parents pay into and have access to all their accommodations world-wide for very minimal prices. 

The room came with a separate bedroom, a murphy bed, a washer and dryer, full kitchen with some supplies, tv, vcr...plenty of things to make our stay wonderful.  Sadly we were only able to get one night there.  I immediately put the pizza in the oven and started a load of laundry (ended up doing three loads).  The pool at this resort was closed for maintenance, so we were able to visit the pool at a nearby pool (also a WorldMark Resort).  It was indoor and outdoor, but mostly the pool was cold.  I sat in the hot tub, while Chris and the girls ran from the regular pool to the hot tub to get warm.

By the time we got back to our room, the girls were ready for bed, and I laid down with both of them.  Didn’t take them too long to fall asleep, not sure though, since I promptly fell asleep as well and didn’t wake up until 11:30.  Chris was fast asleep as well.  Misha woke up in the middle of the night as she had been doing the entire vacation.  I put her in bed with Chris, but the bed was so small that I got in bed with Amy for the rest of the night.

Tuesday morning dawned warm and sunny–unusual for the coast.  We made the best of it though.  We packed up our stuff and drove closer to the beach.  We pulled the beach toys out of the back of the wagon and headed to the sand.  It didn’t take Misha long to be completed covered by it.  Amy was satisfied with walking in the surf on Monday, and both girls settled down to making sand castles and playing.  We played a bit of frisbee and Chris tried to figure out how to fly one of the kites his mom sent with us but was wholly unsuccessful.  Amazingly, it wasn’t quite windy enough.


Around lunch time, we went to turn in our room key and get some lunch.  Sadly, just as we were arriving at the resort, Amy asked Chris to roll up her window.  She didn’t realize that she would need to remove her hand and it was pinched quite badly.  No bleeding, but it sure did hurt.

After driving around a bit, we found a nice little spot next to a lake to eat our lunch of leftover pizza.  The girls were more interested in playing than eating, but that has been the way the entire vacation. 

Amy has taken up saying “Yessiree, Bob” and someone in the family usually responds “I’m not Bob!”  Even Misha has taken to saying something that ends with “Bob”.  Other funny thing that Amy says is “dummersault” for sommersault and “roller toaster” for roller coaster.





 We drove around for awhile after lunch and both girls fell asleep.  They both actually had pretty good naps.  We drove up the coast a bit and finally on our return decided to stay the next two days in Lincoln City.  We ate dinner at “Sambo’s” and found that most restaurants are pretty spendy.  Finding a place to stay was the next item on our list.  We stopped at a number of places and finally chose an older hotel, the Coho Inn, right on the beach with a spectacular sunset view.  The room was older but did have a separate room for the girls to sleep in.  I can’t remember if Misha fell asleep with me laying beside her or if Chris had to drive around with her.  The nights of putting her to sleep have blurred.

Wednesday was not near as nice as Tuesday had been.  It was overcast and much cooler and we even got a bit of rain.  In the morning we went shopping at some outlet malls.  We found some fun things and would have liked to spend more time there, but both girls were getting hungry and crabby around lunch time.  By this time, they have successfully moved their schedule an hour behind to match Oregon time.  We got lunch at Burger King and then drove until they fell asleep.  We went back to the hotel and let them sleep there while we rested as well.  That afternoon, since it was raining we decided to take them bowling.  They hadn’t been before and we found this older place that was empty except for us.  They had bumpers in the lanes so that the girls couldn’t throw gutter balls. 

Amy was excited and once she caught onto the idea would stand at the end of the lane jumping up and down shouting, “Go, Go”.  Once she even ran back to the bench and said “Oh, I can’t watch.”  Of course, Amy and Misha’s balls traveled down the lane reaaaalllllyyy slowly so we had a lot of time to see if they would get a strike or not.  I won with a score of 108 or something close to that and the rest of them were between 80 and 95–even Chris.  Good thing he had the bumpers too!

We found a place for supper after that and were glad to finally get the girls home to bed.  Misha ate mostly ice and didn’t want anything else.  I wrack my brains trying to come up with things that they will even eat.  They are both sooooo picky.

Thursday we headed for home.  Amy had soaked through her pull-up and wet the bed.  Misha came out early saying “Wet, wet.”  Guess she didn’t appreciate it too much.  Chris was still tired so he found a dry spot on Amy’s bed and went back to sleep.

We left for Grandma Balls after breakfast, and I must say I was happy to be starting for home.  Our flight to Utah didn’t leave until about 5 pm so we had plenty of time to drive home, get some lunch, and leave the girls with Lori while Chris and I went to the mall.  We stopped first to vacuum out the lovely Taurus wagon (we will never have one) and then went to look at the pictures we had taken on the Saturday previous.  They weren’t spectacular or anything but we got a few, figuring this group would probably never be together again.

Lori drove us to the airport, and we were finally on our way back to Utah.  Hooray.  By this point, I was more than ready to go home.  We landed around 8 pm, picked up some tacos and headed to Brad’s.  So many changes, and Misha was in no mood to go to sleep in a new location and bed.  Chris finally had to drive around with her again to get her to sleep.  She seems to be catching on to the idea and stays awake longer and longer each time.

On Friday, Chris took the girls and I to Donna’s while he planned to go back to the Practice and work on their computers.  Fortunately, Misha fell asleep about two minutes before we arrived and stayed asleep for about an hour and a half.  She needs all the naps she can get.  While she slept, I helped Angie and Amy fly a kite–mostly Angie did.  She is surely a take-charge kind of girl.  After that we headed over to the play area for awhile.  Donna stayed back at the house and enjoyed the break I think.  The toys were designed for five and up so they were a bit of a challenge for Amy, but she still had fun.

We walked back to Donna’s for lunch and had fresh-baked bread and peanut butter and jelly.  The bread was delicious.  Misha woke up just before lunchtime.  I heard a huge bump upstairs and when I went to check, Misha was already at the bottom of the stairs.

Chris worked at the practice for three hours and finally finished when I called him.  We drove down toward Provo and decided on the way that we had had enough of our vacation and were heading home.  Thus, we had to see all the family to say goodbye.  Chris had made arrangements to have dinner with his old mission president and one of his companions, so our time was a bit limited.  Frankly though, I was glad that we were going to be leaving and after another delightful night with Misha, we were tempted to leave at 3 am when she had already been awake for an hour or so, Chris had driven around with her for an hour and she wouldn’t go to sleep.  He was putting a video on for her to watch when she grabbed my hand and took me back to my bed.  She climbed in and went right to sleep.  We stopped at Fred Meyer for some groceries Saturday morning and were on our way by 9:30.  Wahooooo!  We knew we had made the right decision in coming home because both girls were acting up.  Amy had accidents all day long, and not just the wet variety, and Misha cried in the car for 30 minutes solid before we stopped for lunch.  Two weeks was just too long to be away.

Thursday, 1 May, 2003

Misha has been sleeping in a twin bed for the past week.  She learned how to climb out of her crib two weeks ago and there was no keeping her in it when she was determined to be out of it.  Her twin bed was set up in Amy’s room, so I tried to get her to sleep in it and would lay down beside her.  This sometimes took over an hour for her to finally go to sleep.  We tried putting up the safety gate in front of the door so that even if she climbed out of bed, she wouldn’t be able to get out of the room.  Wrong!  She just climbed over the gate.  It was precarious enough that I figured sooner or later she would fall on her head.

After little success sleeping in Amy’s room, I put a foam mattress on the floor in Misha’s room.  She still cried when I left the room and tried to get out.  The next step was to bungee the door closed so that she couldn’t open the door.  Finally after a couple of minutes crying, she went to sleep on the mattress.  On the Monday following such a fun weekend, Chris stopped at Wal-mart and picked up some door knob covers that have solved the entire problem.  For the first two nights when I put her in bed, she tried to get out of the room and couldn’t.  She cried for maybe two minutes and then it stopped.  When I checked on her before I went to bed, she laid down on the mattress and had gone to sleep.  Last Wednesday, I dismantled the crib and took it downstairs.  I moved Misha’s twin bed out of Amy’s room and into her own room.  Since then, we have had no problems.  In fact, last night we were out late, and I told both girls that when we got home they were to go right to bed.  I carried Amy in, and Misha climbed up the stairs and onto her bed.  I covered her up and she went right to sleep.  For the first couple of nights after she figured out how to climb out of her bed, it was misery for all of us, but I have come to realize that you simply have to keep trying to make the change in their lives and they adapt pretty easily.  Next comes potty training for Misha.

We are leaving on Saturday for a two-week vacation.  We are driving to Utah on Saturday, staying until Thursday morning when we fly out to Oregon and Washington.  We stay in Washington until the following Thursday when we fly back to Utah.  We will probably drive home from Utah on Saturday the 17th.  It will be a long trip with a lot of family.  Susan and Carson are blessing their baby on Sunday, May 3rd and all of my family will be there except Shane.  He stopped by here last Saturday night on his way to Detroit to work for the summer.

Amy is so looking forward to spending time with her cousins and seeing her grandparents and even Great Grandmas.  She will get to see three out of four in this trip.  Grandma Andrews is flying up to Washington for a couple of days to see us and Kevin, Candace, and Jonathan.  Grandpa Kline will also fly in for a day.  We are going to go to the coast as a family for part of the time we are in Oregon–we wanted to be able to have some time away from family and the frenzy that always creates.  Plus, everyone will be in Washington at Grandma Balls–even her sister and one of Chris’ cousins.  I think they will get a hotel, and Grandpa Kline will get a hotel as well.  Kevin and Candace will stay at Candace’s parents, and Lori and Jenni will sleep next door at the neighbors.  It will be quite a full house. 

Becky and Kyle with their two kids are moving to Oregon and will be staying with Larry and Linda until they have a place to move into, a job, or both.  Not sure.  I just hope that our girls will be able to sleep well.

Our house has been “on the market” since last Tuesday.  We haven’t had any interested buyers so far.  We have a lot of time–till October–to sell, and I really don’t want to have to move twice because this one sells early, but it would be nice to have that pressure off of us.  Kind of a double-edged sword.

Sunday, 20 April, 2003

Until this past week, Misha has been a dream to put to bed.  On Friday, she figured out how to climb out of her crib even while the side rail was up and since then she is more of a nightmare.  I have tried to get her to sleep in the twin bed in Amy’s room, but I have to lay beside her and after an hour tonight, she was still fooling around.  We have tried putting a child safety gate on her door but she climbs over it.  Nothing seems to hold her in.  Tonight we took a bungee cord and hooked it to her door and then to Amy’s door so that she couldn’t open the door.  That made her quite angry but after about ten minutes of trying the crying suddenly stopped.  I have a bed made for her on the floor on a foam mattress so hopefully she found her way there.  Tomorrow Chris is going to stop and pick up door handle covers that keep little hands from turning the knob.


Amy sees Chris and I kiss each other on the lips and one day she wanted to kiss me on the lips.  I told her no, that mommys and daddys can kiss on the lips but we kiss our girls on the cheek.  I tried to explain that when she gets married she will be able to kiss her husband on the lips.  I don’t think it sunk in completely because the next day she came to me and announced that when she was bigger she was going to kiss daddy on the lips.

She loves to see and talk about going to Disneyland.  Chris tells her stories at night about his trips there, and she loves the idea of riding a roller coaster–her word for it though is roller toaster.

Amy walked into the office the other day while I was on the computer and said to me, “Ok, here’s the deal.”  Where she picks these things up, I don’t know.  Today was Easter and Amy has been looking forward to it for a couple of weeks.  I told her a story about the Easter Bunny coming to my house when I was a little girl one morning when we weren’t expecting him and how much fun that was.  We found gifts that he had left hidden under the couch even.  Amy announced that she wanted the Easter Bunny to bring her a new baby because her old baby is getting old and the eye lashes have fallen out.  I found one on the internet and she was quite thrilled to see it sitting in the living room this afternoon.

 Chris and I hid candy in the plastic easter eggs on the main floor and up the stairs.  It took me so long to get Misha to sleep that I didn’t have a chance to get the eggs hidden earlier, so all of a sudden, I heard Amy walking downstairs.  I made her go back upstairs and watch a movie in the guest room until we were finished.  It was pretty fun to watch her find the eggs.  Misha woke up later and Amy had rehidden some of the eggs for her, but she didn’t really care.  I got her a soft little dog that we named Patch since he has a brown marking over his left eye.  Amy kind of named her new baby “Annie”, but I am not sure it will stick.  Her old baby has just been “baby”.  She did name a little stuffed dog “Sam”.  That was a first.

I woke up with the stomach flu this morning and have felt awful for most of the day.  It was Stake Conference and Chris took both girls to church with him.  I offered to keep Misha, but he declined.  I think he wishes he had left her home.  She doesn’t sit still very well.



We went to the US Home Design Center a week ago to pick out our cabinets, carpet, linoleum, fixtures, appliances, etc. for our new house.  It was a lot of fun.  We are still waiting to hear back on a few things before everything is finalized, but we are excited.

Chris talked to Kevin a bit ago and their new house in Texas should be finished in three weeks.  It is nice for them that they won’t have to make a double move.  Our house will be “on the market” tomorrow and though I hope it sells quickly I hope it won’t sell quickly.  I am not looking forward to having to move twice and change addresses twice and live in a smaller place.  We can surely do it, but it won’t be fun.

Thursday, 10 April, 2003

We have gotten a taste of spring the past couple of days and it is wonderful.  My tulips should be blooming any day now and the trees are loaded with blossoms.  I love this time of year.

We changed our clocks forward last Saturday and are now getting used to the change.  Misha is adjusting very well.  We started putting her down a little earlier a couple of weeks before the change and she is now completely changed over to the new schedule.  Amy, on the other hand, is having a more difficult time.  We put her to bed between 8:30 and 9 and when I check on her at 10 as I am going to bed, she is usually still awake.  You’d think that she would be sleeping longer in the morning, but no.  I enjoy the longer hours of day time.

We are working on finishing up our back yard.  We had rocks delivered yesterday for the edging and sod will be here on Friday evening.  We wish that we had done it sooner, but I am sure we will enjoy it this summer.  We have been out working in the backyard for the past couple of evenings and are now sporting blistered hands and sore backs.

Misha brought me part of the small portable potty yesterday and said “potty” to me.  I got it out for her, took off her diaper, moved the potty to the living room so she could sit and watch tv and by the time I got back to her, she had peed on the floor.  She stood there with a very surprised look on her face.  At least she is beginning to know the feeling and understand a bit better how her body works.  I would like to have her trained this summer.  Amy does really well with only occasional accidents.  Sometimes I think she just waits too long before going to the bathroom.  We need to work more diligently on helping her stay dry at night, but she isn’t too willing to go to the bathroom on her own as soon as she wakes up.





Amy is so excited about going on vacation and seeing all of her family.  She talks about going to the beach, jumping on the trampoline at Grandma’s house and playing in Kaden’s park.  I am sure the sad part will be bringing her home where she won’t have all of her cousins to play with.

We watched a DVD about Jesus Christ on Sunday and it has really concerned Amy.  She talks about him having his hands nailed to the cross and being hoisted up.  It is kind of a hard concept to explain to a three-year old.

Tuesday, 25 March, 2003

We have decided to buy a new house.  Crazy huh?  We made the decision this week.  But for a little background, there is a new US Home development (we bought our first Colorado house from them) about a mile and a half from us called Monarch Estates.  We were driving around one day and noticed that US Home would be starting a new development with larger homes and home lots, and we were curious.  We certainly love this home we are in right now, but wish that we had made some different decisions: a bigger lot, a three-car garage and a full basement.  One day as we drove around Monarch Estates looking at the lots, I had the distinct impression that someday we would live there.  It was similar to the impression I received as I drove past the new addition to the Utah Valley Regional Medical Center in Provo and felt that I would have a baby there.

I mentioned this impression to Chris probably the next time we drove by but we didn’t think too much about it.  So, a couple of months later we stopped and talked to the sales agent, Brad Williams, who sold us our current house.  Chris made the comment that the lots must be a lot more money than at Ridge Crest since they were bigger.  Brad said no that many of them weren’t.  We were both intrigued, and I went into the office to take a look and get some floor plans for the new models they would be building.  We drove up to Johnstown and looked at some of the models that were there.  We looked at one model and thought we might like it–someday.  I kept thinking about the house and wanted to talk to Brad some more to get an idea of what a move would cost us.  Really, I felt very impressed for the last couple of months that we needed to explore these homes more.

I kept wondering if making a move to a bigger home was just being greedy and wanting bigger and better, but the feelings were still there.  Chris tolerated my notion that we should look at these homes and indulged me, but he rolled his eyes at me plenty.  He felt that we needed to stay in our current house for at least another year, year and a half–at least until October to get the tax benefits.  So we began looking with that time frame in mind.

We went back to look at one of the models in Johnstown–the Crescendo–but decided that it wasn’t really a good fit for us.  We stopped and talked with Brad again and he directed us to some models that might be a better fit.  At that time (about two weeks ago), we told him we were projecting for the future but wanted to be prepared.  This was a Saturday and Chris had a list of things at the house that he wanted to do.  We spent almost the whole afternoon driving to these models and looking (after cleaning the church).  We looked first at a model in Loveland at Hunter’s Run–the Etude.  And frankly, we loved it.  Very similar to when we walked into US Home's Amethyst model and loved it.  It is open and spacious with lots of light and windows.  We took pictures and then went to look at the last model Brad had suggested.  It was the Symphony model.  It was okay, but very similar to what we already have that it would be hard to justify purchasing it.  Plus it was decorated in pretty outrageous colors.






After deciding on the Etude, IF we bought a new house at all, we went home.  But all week long, I felt as though we needed to go talk to Brad again soon and just find out how much this would be–still planning for the future.  I got a babysitter for last Saturday evening and we headed over to talk with Brad.  I knew Chris was still planning for next year and wasn’t quite sold on the idea, but as we talked to Brad, I could see that his thoughts were changing.  We went home feeling a little overwhelmed, and Chris stayed up for a couple hours creating financial scenarios.  The gist was that we could afford to buy a house now, but probably not a year from now as prices continue to rise.  The equity that we would gain in that home would outpace what we might accrue in this house.  The incentives at this time are pretty fantastic.  Things seem to be falling into place this week.  We are meeting with realtors tomorrow and Thursday, we got preapproved for a home equity loan to pay the earnest fees and Brad offered us an additional $2000 incentive to close by the end of the month.

Chris and I talked last night and decided to move ahead as though we were supposed to be making this decision and proceed until we felt as though it was wrong.  Everything seems to be falling into place.

I am just showing Amy the floor plan of the Etude.  Her words, “Wow!  Are we gonna buy a new house?  Wow.” She thinks for a second... “What's the matter with this one?”

Friday, 21 March, 2003

We have had record snow falls this past week.  It started on Monday night and didn’t stop snowing until late Wednesday.  Some places in the mountains have had up to 90 inches of snow.  Most of the state was home-bound for a couple of days, and in many places it was illegal to be out driving anyway.  We probably got 18 to 24 inches.  Chris took the girls out to play in the snow on Wednesday afternoon.  They, however, were more attracted to the huge puddle at the bottom of the driveway.  Misha sat in it twice and was pretty soaked when she finally had to come in–kicking and screaming.  Her arms were red to the elbows she was so cold.





We had record warmth the week before the snow, the girls were wearing shorts and t-shirts on Saturday.  My tulips were peaking out of the ground in the front flower bed, and I am not sure whether they will survive or not.

I have decided that Misha needs to be potty trained.  She likes to sit on the potty and be a big girl, but I really haven’t done much more than sit her on the potty with her diaper on.  I realized yesterday that if she is so anxious to sit on the potty, why discourage her?  So, I know that she has been trying to sit on the big potty all by herself when she walked into the living room yesterday with a funny look on her face.  She said, “potty” and I figured she wanted to sit on the potty again.  She turned around though and her whole backside was wet from falling in.

Wednesday, 12 March, 2003

Beautiful and sunny, high 60s




We are all feeling better.  What a relief!  Amy may not have liked the shot she got, but it sure did the trick for her.

Chris has been in Pennsylvania since Monday and will be home tomorrow.  He was originally supposed to go to New York to help out the New York Times with a problem (they are a client of IBM), but they fixed their problem.  Since the ticket had already been purchased, Chris has been helping another teammate in PA.  Probably not a real necessity, but they have been able to get a lot done together.

The girls and I went to the library on Monday for story time.  We hadn’t been in a couple of weeks, so it was a nice treat for them.  On the way home, Amy noticed that I wasn’t wearing any socks.  She said to me, “Mommy, you’re not wearing socks!  Silly Mommy.  What were you thinking?”  I laughed out loud at that one.

Tuesday, 4 March, 2003

Susan had her baby yesterday at 1:13 pm.  Her water broke about 4 am and things just progressed nicely from there.  She was really worried that she would have to have a c-section.  Both Susan and Melissa Brooklyn are doing well.  Her due date of March 26th was obviously incorrect since Melissa weighed in at a wopping 8 lbs 14 ounces.  It has been quite a rough pregnancy for the past four or five months, so I know they are glad to have her here safely.

Misha’s phrase of the week is “no way”.  If you ask her if she wants gummy bears, or crackers, or a cookies, and she doesn’t, we hear “no way”.  Sometimes it is just a little more emphatic with “no, no, no way”.  Sadly, she is also learning to say it when she doesn’t want to do something.  Hmm, where did she pick that up?


We have all been sick over the past month.  Amy and I the most, but Chris and Misha had colds for a few days.  I finally took the girls to the doctor yesterday because I thought I had an ear infection.  Turns out that Amy was the sickest of us all with strep and an ear infection.  She hardly complained and looked fine.  She has been waking up in the middle of the night, but didn’t complain, she just didn’t want to go back to her bed.  In fact, she woke up in the night Sunday and Chris was taking care of her.  She kept saying, “It’s not my fault, It’s not my fault.”  Poor thing.




I had the nurse give her a penicillin shot and that was a sad moment for Amy.  All the way home she kept saying, “The doctor’s office is not fun.  I don’t like getting shots.”  Poor thing.  Probably won’t do that again to her since it was so traumatic for her.  I have had a sinus infection and feel so much better today with some antibiotics in my system.  I am just glad to be feeling better again.  In the past six weeks, I have been to church once.  I have been healthy for one week of the past month.  Not fun, especially when I got sick after getting better the first time.